Mission in the City: Hopes and Dreams – My story
By Shirley-Joy Barrow
Read these powerful stories of Christian social service in Whanganui.
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Published: 28 September 2018
Format: Paperback, 228pp
Dimensions: 6″ x 9″
Words: 69,900 approx
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Foreword by Rt Hon Helen Clark
“I first met Shirley-Joy when she and her husband (Rev Tony Bell) came to see me in my Electorate Office at Mt Albert. Shirley-Joy wanted to raise concerns over the lack of adequate mental health services for people she worked with. An ordained minister, Shirley-Joy was working in the community supporting people towards a future free from harming themselves and others.
I learned that Shirley-Joy’s early life had not been easy and that she had set about working for those who were disadvantaged. Her experiences made her an ideal person to be doing the work she was doing. Shirley-Joy had a big heart and a concern for people whom society would often rather not know about.
As Prime Minister and attending the Rātana annual celebrations, I met Shirley-Joy again and we chatted over a cup of tea. She was now the City Missioner in Wanganui. I was impressed with her tenacity and her sense of hope for the city and its people. As City Missioner, Shirley-Joy hoped to bring to people in need of the basics of life: shelter, food, hope, and love.
As the book reveals, with a team of caring people Shirley-Joy sought to establish safe accommodation, and to continue to provide food for those who needed it through the foodbank, including through Friendship meals and the Christmas Lunch. She spent time with homeless people in the bamboo by the Whanganui river and in the sand dunes, listening to the dreams and concerns of those who lived in those rough conditions. Shirley-Joy worked with those seeking freedom from crippling debt, helped sort out access issues with the courts, and assisted with many other complex issues facing people who were ill equipped to deal with them – the stories of the people she worked with in Whanganui, some shared in this book, make her dedication to them and meeting their needs abundantly clear.
I warmly recommend this book. It opens a window on what life is like for New Zealand’s most vulnerable people. From the safety of our warm, secure, and well stocked homes, it can be hard to imagine the lives some of our fellow citizens are living. In Whanganui itself, there is significant distance between the wealthy and the middle-income earners and the truly homeless.
Mission in the City writes about times when the City Mission was helping unprecedented numbers of people by providing emergency and permanent housing, by feeding individuals and whole whānau, by providing drop-in centres for those in need of a friendly and safe space, and by offering budgeting services – all under Shirley-Joy’s protective and fostering eye.
The book tells of how under a corporate model, the Mission’s focus began to shift. The humanitarian model which had been established began to erode. It ultimately disintegrated, culminating in Shirley-Joy’s dismissal at Christmas 2011. This is the story of that journey.”
Rt Hon Helen Clark,
Former Prime Minister of New Zealand, 1999-2008
Read these powerful stories of Christian social service in Whanganui.
Servant minister, Deacon Shirley-Joy Barrow shares her inspiring story of being City Missioner in Whanganui from 2004 to 2011.
Working together, her team found that they could achieve much more than their individual skills and capabilities led them to expect. They developed effective ways to respond to the people on the margins of society that they served.
This social history also includes many personal stories of the people served by the Mission and those who worked for it.
Importantly, Shirley-Joy reflects on the lessons she learned during the conflict with the governing board that brought her tenure as missioner to an end. Some of her key learnings are:
- There must be clear governance and management policies, and effective lines of authority and communication.
- Finance and fund-raising responsibilities need to be clearly delineated with accountability accepted by all parties.
- Faith is not the same for everyone.
- A Christian based social service should be based on biblical principles.
- Always engage with the local council, key stake holders and people in the community
- Corporate business models do not work for social service agencies.
- Believe in yourself.
From the Prologue:
“Wherever Tony and I went, we were always aware of needs within our community, and connected with people struggling with their lives. We often had extra people living with our family and we would never turn anyone away who expressed a genuine desire to change their lives.
I believe life is about finding out who we are, what we want to do, and how we might do it. For me, it is less about why things happen the way they do, and more about how we handle ourselves when things happen. It is about how we treat other people.
I have interviewed a number people since 2012 who shared the hopes and dreams from their involvement in the Wanganui Mission (the Mission). It is with their permission I include their stories; some will be named and others not.
Many times in my life I have been blessed with people who encouraged and supported me through difficult times, and celebrated with me in successful times. Family, friends, colleagues, clients, staff members, volunteers, board members, those in other community groups and government agencies – all helped me improve my life. It is through their encouragement and support that I have found the courage to write this book.
As the Buddhist wisdom says, “When the pupil is ready, the teacher arrives.” I have had many wonderful teachers and guides throughout my life, and they still arrive when I need support or have new lessons to learn.
This is my story.”
Table of contents
Prologue —The Author
Chapter 1 – A new journey begins
Chapter 2 — The prophetic predicts the future and dreams dreams
- The Interim Trust’s journey
- Rev David Day (City Missioner 1998–2004)
Chapter 3 – Knowing the history
- Rick’s Story
- A young man’s story
Chapter 4 — Following on
Chapter 5 — Beginning with an end in mind
- City Missioner Activites
- Ngareta’s Story
- Peter’s Story
Chapter 6 — Being feisty and hard edged
Chapter 7 — Core Services Continuing
- Community Christmas Lunch
- Mission Travel Club
- Anne’s Place
- Maria’s Story
- Our Space
- Murray’s Story
Chapter 8 — Do the necessary…food first
- Sherylee’s Story
- Ezee meals
- Friendship Meals
Chapter 9 — Do the necessary clothing and furniture
- Mike and Sue
- Trish and Maggie
- Nourelle’s Story
Chapter 10 — Then the possible… Mission Possible Shop
- Mission Possible Shop
Chapter 11 — And suddenly we will be doing the impossible…Total Care Budget
- Total Care Budget (TCB)
- One Woman’s Story
Chapter 12 – And suddenly we will be doing the impossible… Emergency Housing
- “There’s no place like home
- Emergency Housing
- Some of their Stories
Chapter 13 — A synchronistic orchestra of events
- Man falls in street
- The Lada’s Story
- “They called me Mumsy”
- The man-child
- Jason’s Story
- Appreciation for Volunteers
- Baby Jericho and his Mum.
- The Administrators
- Janice’s Story
- Nicola’s Story
- Hosting visitors
- “Thank you, Food Lady”
Chapter 14 — A family affair or favouritism
- Jason and Sarah’s Story
- Evan’s Story
Chapter 15 — From nostalgia into the unfamiliar
- Dick’s Story
- My Faith
Chapter 16 — Polarisation
- Covenant of trust
- Local poor taking brunt of economic downturn, says City Mission
Chapter 17 — Reflect, Review and Respond
- Review and Reflect
About the Author
Deacon Shirley-Joy Barrow has been in community ministry and social work with many organisations since her early 20s. Her career has included setting up a rehabilitation hostel for young people and a halfway house for abused women, men and their families; driving ambulances and school buses; working in rest homes and a prison; and managing the Whanganui City Mission.
She has trained in counselling, family therapy, professional supervision, transitional ministry and child protection, and served on the executive of the Diakonia World Federation.
Christian social service, Whanganui, Wanganui, Methodist, urban mission, welfare, foodbanks, friendship, social housing, emergency housing, homelessness, New Zealand, deacon, governance of charitable organisations, governance vs faith, communication, personal stories, volunteers. funding of social services.
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